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I Snapped Out of It—and the Devil Been Nervous Ever Since
There’s a moment in every woman’s life; especially Black women, when the fog starts to lift. When the lies we’ve been fed about our...
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Aug 2, 20252 min read


I’m Not Spiraling… I’m Ascending (So Mind Ya Business)
Let me just go ahead and say it yes, my hair is in a bun that might not have been intentional, I’ve had iced coffee for dinner three days...
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Jul 26, 20252 min read
Sis, That Little Win? It Still Counts. Celebrate It!
Hey sis! Let me start by saying this: you are doing better than you think. I know sometimes it feels like if it ain’t a big win like a...
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Jul 12, 20252 min read
“Sis, Get Out the House!” — Why Your Sanity Depends on Showing Up
Let’s be honest. Sometimes the soft life feels a little too soft when we’re curled up under a blanket, binging reruns of Girlfriends ,...
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Jul 5, 20253 min read
Sis, You Are the Table — Stop Letting Them Treat You Like a Folding Chair
Hey Queen, Let’s have a real moment. You’ve spent your days pouring out — into your job, your family, your friendships, your church, your...
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May 31, 20252 min read
Let’s Talk About Your Mouth, Sis
Good morning, beautiful!It’s another Saturday, another blog post, and yes — another divine opportunity to check ourselves before we...
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May 24, 20252 min read
"Sis, You Good?" — The Secret Struggles Behind the ‘Dream Life’
To the untrained eye, I am that girl . My hair stays laid, my selfies hit, my kids look well-fed and occasionally matching, and my...
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May 17, 20252 min read
Sis, It’s a New Month — Let’s Welcome Summer Like the Queens We Are!
Whew, we made it! Another month, another chance to step into the sunshine, moisturized, unbothered, and booked with boundaries. As the...
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May 3, 20253 min read
Sis, I’m Not Ignoring You — I’m in My Self-Love Era (And I Look Good Doing It)
There was a time when I would jump up at every “wyd” text, fix everybody’s problems, and still have edges fighting for their lives.Not...
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Apr 26, 20251 min read


Sis.. you don't need another journal you just need a nap! And a strategy!
Let’s be real, sis. How many journals do you currently own? Be honest. Five? Ten? One for goals, one for gratitude, one for that...
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Apr 19, 20252 min read


Self-Care for Moms: Why It’s Not Selfish Faith + Motherhood + Real Talk
You Can’t Pour From an Empty Cup Let’s be real—motherhood is a whole ministry. From the moment we open our eyes, we’re pouring into...
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Apr 5, 20251 min read
Setting Boundaries: Protecting Your Peace as a Black Woman
As Black women, we often find ourselves carrying the weight of expectations—whether from family, friends, or even society. We’re expected...
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Mar 29, 20252 min read


The Power of Forgiveness: A Path to Healing in the Black Community and Among Women
Forgiveness is often seen as an act of kindness toward others, but in reality, it is a gift we give ourselves. Within the Black...
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Mar 15, 20253 min read


Prioritizing Self-Care: Why You Deserve to Be a Priority
In the hustle and bustle of life—balancing work, family, relationships, and personal goals—it’s easy to put yourself on the back burner....
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Mar 8, 20252 min read
Rise, Queen: A Weekend Reminder of Your Power
Ladies, let’s take a moment to breathe in our strength, exhale our doubts, and step boldly into our power. This weekend is yours—to...
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Feb 15, 20251 min read


Prioritizing Your Health: The Power of Boundaries, Expectations, and Standards
Today's blog is all about prioritizing your health. This past week, I had the privilege of leading a virtual workshop for an amazing...
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Feb 8, 20253 min read


New Month, New Goals: February Edition – How to Stay Unbothered and Thriving
So, we’ve made it to February. Remember those New Year’s resolutions we promised ourselves we’d stick to? Yeah, let’s pretend they’re...
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Feb 1, 20253 min read


What's up FRFR
Hey yall! I told you I would be doing better with my blogging lol and look at me... doing better! Often times people ask me where do I...
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Aug 16, 20232 min read


What does the label say?
Wow! I took a break from blogging and didn't realize until a few weeks ago that I took almost a 2 year break. It legitimately wasn't...
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Aug 1, 20232 min read


H.O.P.E.
Hey ladies (and gentlemen if you're reading) I feel so good typing this blog this week! I couldnt wait to get in a quiet place so I could...
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Sep 27, 20211 min read
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