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"Sis, You Good?" — The Secret Struggles Behind the ‘Dream Life’
To the untrained eye, I am that girl . My hair stays laid, my selfies hit, my kids look well-fed and occasionally matching, and my...
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6 days ago2 min read
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Sis, It’s a New Month — Let’s Welcome Summer Like the Queens We Are!
Whew, we made it! Another month, another chance to step into the sunshine, moisturized, unbothered, and booked with boundaries. As the...
wearedopetogether
May 33 min read
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Sis, I’m Not Ignoring You — I’m in My Self-Love Era (And I Look Good Doing It)
There was a time when I would jump up at every “wyd” text, fix everybody’s problems, and still have edges fighting for their lives.Not...
wearedopetogether
Apr 261 min read
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Sis.. you don't need another journal you just need a nap! And a strategy!
Let’s be real, sis. How many journals do you currently own? Be honest. Five? Ten? One for goals, one for gratitude, one for that...
wearedopetogether
Apr 192 min read
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Self-Care for Moms: Why It’s Not Selfish Faith + Motherhood + Real Talk
You Can’t Pour From an Empty Cup Let’s be real—motherhood is a whole ministry. From the moment we open our eyes, we’re pouring into...
wearedopetogether
Apr 51 min read
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Setting Boundaries: Protecting Your Peace as a Black Woman
As Black women, we often find ourselves carrying the weight of expectations—whether from family, friends, or even society. We’re expected...
wearedopetogether
Mar 292 min read
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The Power of Forgiveness: A Path to Healing in the Black Community and Among Women
Forgiveness is often seen as an act of kindness toward others, but in reality, it is a gift we give ourselves. Within the Black...
wearedopetogether
Mar 153 min read
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Prioritizing Self-Care: Why You Deserve to Be a Priority
In the hustle and bustle of life—balancing work, family, relationships, and personal goals—it’s easy to put yourself on the back burner....
wearedopetogether
Mar 82 min read
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Rise, Queen: A Weekend Reminder of Your Power
Ladies, let’s take a moment to breathe in our strength, exhale our doubts, and step boldly into our power. This weekend is yours—to...
wearedopetogether
Feb 151 min read
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Prioritizing Your Health: The Power of Boundaries, Expectations, and Standards
Today's blog is all about prioritizing your health. This past week, I had the privilege of leading a virtual workshop for an amazing...
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Feb 83 min read
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New Month, New Goals: February Edition – How to Stay Unbothered and Thriving
So, we’ve made it to February. Remember those New Year’s resolutions we promised ourselves we’d stick to? Yeah, let’s pretend they’re...
wearedopetogether
Feb 13 min read
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What's up FRFR
Hey yall! I told you I would be doing better with my blogging lol and look at me... doing better! Often times people ask me where do I...
wearedopetogether
Aug 16, 20232 min read
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What does the label say?
Wow! I took a break from blogging and didn't realize until a few weeks ago that I took almost a 2 year break. It legitimately wasn't...
wearedopetogether
Aug 1, 20232 min read
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H.O.P.E.
Hey ladies (and gentlemen if you're reading) I feel so good typing this blog this week! I couldnt wait to get in a quiet place so I could...
wearedopetogether
Sep 27, 20211 min read
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Sideline Friends
Whats up yall! I hope you are having a WONDERFUL week so far. Today is HUMP DAY so the week is almost over. I could not wait to get this...
wearedopetogether
Sep 22, 20211 min read
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When "what if" turns into "it is so"
I smile as I type this because it has been in my head for so long and I didnt share it but.... I think its time. Hello to the person...
wearedopetogether
Sep 7, 20211 min read
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YOU are the Chosen one!
Two more days and we will be in September. Only 3 more months to do whatever it is that you had planed for 2021; but no rush and no...
wearedopetogether
Aug 30, 20211 min read
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Are we still overthinking?
Whats up ?! Whats up?! Whats up?!? I said that in my Martin voice and if you don't know who Martin is well then baby you are seriously...
wearedopetogether
Aug 16, 20212 min read
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Girl Stop It!
Pressure gets hot And with heat come mirages So you think it's cool over there Your thirst is real But water can't fill What comparison...
wearedopetogether
Aug 2, 20211 min read
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It's ok... Let them watch
I have heard the saying "don't let them see you sweat" hundreds of times and I have followed that advice. Whenever something is wrong; I...
wearedopetogether
Jul 26, 20211 min read
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