Stability is not intimidating!
I often tell people that its hard for me to understand, accept, and live in dysfunction because what I have seen in my life are functional relationships, friendships, marriages, etc. That's my testimony; I am not sure what yours is but that's mine. Too many times in life people have only experience chaos so when stability comes into the room they back away because.... its different and hard to understand... its not the norm. We have to grasp the concept.... Stability is ok... dont let it intimidate you!
We are all on a journey and on this journey we will run into pot holes and some mountains; that in itself is normal but living a unstable life isnt! This is the definition of stability; the quality, state, or degree of being stable: such as. a : the strength to stand or endure. THE STRENGTH TO ENDURE!!
I am a church girl so you know I instantly reference the bible; Ephesians 6:13-15 says; 13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
15 And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace
The gospel of peace.... you want to know what opposite of peace is? Its confusion, dysfunction.... unstable! You know you are in a place of stability when you receive peace.
I did a live on Facebook and I said its ok that the business is doing well... dont expect a failure. Its awesome that your new relationship is working... its ok you deserve it; you deserve the stability that you've never experienced before. You and your children and your house is in order.... thats right because you are in a place of peace... stability. Dont let it intimidate you! Sit in his space and enjoy this moment and know all is well :)